So, today I got a message in my Facebook inbox from someone whose existence I have almost forgotten about. The last time I had any contact with this person was almost a decade ago and he was someone I hate to admit I dated briefly. *Cringe*

So, he is asking me to friend him and although I am obviously over it, and I can honestly say I don’t care about him, I am confused whether or not to accept this friend request.

Ok, I may sound very high school right now but there is a part of me that is like “Well, that was such a long time ago, you don’t even feel anything anymore.” But there is also that other half of me that is like “Ok, you’ve forgiven, maybe not forgotten, but forgiven is good enough, but he is not important enough to know about anything going on in my life right now.”

I feel stupid for even having to think about it actually. I guess it’s like this weird person or thing that you kind of just pushed out of your thoughts and suddenly there he is. haha!

Some people think exes can’t be friends. I beg to differ but I guess it depends on the situation. I’m friends with most (not all) my exes but it was because we were friends to begin with and it took a LOT of time for us to be friends again. And one of them is kind of by default because we have a child together. I wouldn’t even call him a friend, more like an unfortunate coincidence. ha!

Anyway, this whole post is pretty much pointless. Goodnight. :)